his eldest son jay, is an assistant for our call john with the ravens. this whole family thing gets deeper. i think that is strange. >> i'm sure he is very proud of him. you never hear the name come up. he just plays it off. if you want to take a wild guess john has always been the guy that is levelheaded, nice and cool. everything went smoothly as far as his personal life and jim. it took him awhile to get there. as they brought up the injury thing there is a new harvard study they will spend this money. they will look at football player's former players who have died 20 years earlier than the average man. >> we're not shocked starting at the age of 7, 8, 15. what ever age started to bang our head in this game. >> the area i would not want my son to play. and yet if he came to me and said this is the one thing that gives me pleasure this is the one thing that makes me feel like part of the growth of the one thing i want to do. how do you say no. if he has three or four options why go out and i say this every single time. if you are one of the bigger kid